Archive for February, 2008

SelfDesign

I haven’t read the book yet (I just ordered it via InterLibrary Loan), but I am already intrigued by this graphic.

SelfDesign Paragon

Some of the words here may be a bit too New Age-y for some readers, but consider the nine-point breakdown. Imagine if everyone you knew…

0. Was quiet enough inside (my version of “being present”) to really listen to human beings and observe patterns in their lives and the lives of others?

1. Could interact with someone who was highly developed in an area of their interest and had ample time to watch them, create new work based on their models, and learn from their mistakes (a true apprenticeship)?

2. Was enthusiastic and passionate about topics that they found interesting and important?

3. Could absorb huge amounts of data and information and then clearly apply that data to meaningful questions?

4. Was comfortable enough with their own “identity”, however broadly defined, that they could empathetically and effectively reach out to others?

5. Had ample practice setting and reaching personal goals?

6. Was in a position mentally, emotionally, and financially to mentor someone else?

7. Knew how to work in groups and create healthy learning communities?

8. Was true to their deepest gifts and talents as they developed through life and found powerful ways to share themselves with the world?

Bragging Rights

I just have to feature the work of one of the many talented people at University of Chicago Laboratory Schools. This person started a filmmaking club this year and regularly visits the lab to *make stuff happen* [my kind of people]. Recently, she put together a video highlighting the comments of language learners. Check it out.

A Reinaldo “Reini” Cortes

Thanks to this blog, an old companion from my mission (Concepción, Chile, 1997-98) found me last Sunday. And she just forwarded me an email this evening that our good friend Reinaldo Cortes, who we both knew in the mission field, died in a motorcycle accident yesterday. I’m sad and little weepy. I saw Reinaldo about 4 years ago during a brief visit to Santiago. We walked the beautiful San Cristóbal hill and talked a little about life. I could tell he wasn’t feeling so good about things. I ache that my life’s path took me away from him and so many others that I have loved. You can’t really be there for people when you are far away. You can’t really know what their daily experience is like or help them when they need you. You can only empathize from a distance. And you can’t really enjoy their gifts either. Reinaldo had an unstoppable sense of humor and a goofy, light-hearted approach to life in general. It was so fun to be around him. We played game after game of ping pong on our days off and he ALWAYS won. Elder Cortes was also special to me because he was the only elder that was in all three of my mission areas. We used to joke that he was “following” me…I will miss, you Reinaldo. You better behave – “Portáte bien, loco” – until I see you again. And if you didn’t know how much you were loved, I hope you do now.